A couple we’re friends with have three kids who are begging for a puppy. Mom caved. Dad is on the fence. So the kids put together a presentation to try and persuade him. (Which we think is flat-out amazing. Their dad’s in business. So they clearly know him well.)

He’s been chatting with us a lot about how good it would be for the family, but inevitably comes back to the biggest hiccup in the decision-making process: “It would change everything.”

He’s not wrong. Bringing home a puppy will melt your heart, but—let’s be honest—it’s also a LOT of work.

We’re big pet-lovers over here. So… Before you fall for floppy ears and stubby tails, we thought we’d put together some honest questions you can ask your family.

This will be Blog 1 of… many… as we follow our friends through their puppy-ownership process. Let’s start with an initial conversation that you can have with your family. Grab a pizza, some ice cream, and let’s talk pups.

Questions to Ask Before Getting a Puppy

A puppy isn’t just a phase—it’s a long-term commitment that affects daily routines, finances, and energy levels. Before saying yes, consider the following:

  • Do we have time for DAILY training, walks, and play?
  • How will we delegate:
    • Food/water
    • Potty breaks
    • Walks
    • Dog parks
    • Grooming
    • Vet visits
    • Medications (like heartworm, flea & tick, etc.)
  • Are we prepared for sleepless nights and accidents?
  • Where will it sleep?
  • Are we okay with a dog that sheds? What’s the clean-up like?
  • Can we afford food, supplies, and medical care?
  • Does our lifestyle fit a puppy’s needs?
  • Who will watch it when we travel?

Puppies bring joy, companionship, and chaos in equal measure. Asking these questions upfront helps ensure your home is ready for the responsibility—and the love—that comes with a new furry family member.

Up next in the series: choosing a dog and a breeder.